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She really does seem like someone who just needed to be told "you dont have to do that youre still worthy if you dont and will have an easier time at life not going down that path and wasting more time later in life correcting mistakes and trying to feel better after unnecessary chaos upends your whole life" Imagine you get the job of your dreams but theres this trauma occupying your mind constantly making it hard to work or sleep. You dont need that like fr going down bad paths or trying to fit in is never beneficial for you youre too pretty to being doing all that you don't have to Im sure all people involved are a lot less unsavory when theyre sober and focused ok their futures or talking about what theyre actually passionate about rather than forcing this insanity on themselves that they all dont actually enjoy theyre just confused and everyone thinks they know better than those who try to give good advice like "dont party" You get 5 seconds of fun using substances and fitting in in retrospect and then its just you chasing that forever like those not so great moments you thought were great are somehow the glory days We see the traumatized millennials who dropped out of college or had issues and now are chronic users on depression meds, why are we doing that to ourselves but worse now ???