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Ugh... but when you say it like that you make it seem like they're not horrible awful rapists! We need to expand the definition so that we can say rape is more common and therefore men are bad and women are victims... Seriously tho you can have a bad, regrettable, even "traumatic" sexual experience and have it not be rape. Ppl who can't grasp this seem to not understand rape is a real thing that happens. If my abuser respected a no like these guys did I wouldn't be a victim. I think I remember them even giving her ways out saying "you don't have to do this if you're tired" They weren't threatening her, manipulating her, she was in their age group, she could say no and she did say no and that was respected. If she truly could not consent due to the intoxication, she is way more guilty imo. She's claiming they should have known based on her slurred words? What about the guy who was straight up passing out?