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I agree completely, its an excuse to lash out, and it just polarises debate to the point that nothing comes of it. I know someone who has been molested, and she is so broken up about this case, but she hasn't read the facts, and I try to point to the contradictions, but I feel like if I push too hard, she might think I'm attacking her indirectly. Even then, just because this is not rape, doesn't mean rape isn't a huge problem, so I feel like being objective on this one case might look like excusing others - as someone who has not been sexually assaulted, its easy for me to be objective and look at things case-by-case, but that's also how men piss women off generally - trying to be logical when they are working on something emotional. Life is hard, and Lucy/Amber Heard/others are not helping.