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Very well written post. Let's take it away from the Jane Doe bashing and name calling. It is an unbelievably sad situation. How someone with a lot of promise could mess up their life so badly. She also had been SA before. If I was one of her parents, the sense of despair would be overwhelming. Raising a child and having it turn into a national cause celebre? Just destroying the family trajectory. I have known some very ambitious college women who wanted their fun, but cannot think of one who would make the incredibly bad decisions Jane Doe did. They have worked too hard to let it crumble. At some level, I hope this woman can recover and move forward. I would not wish this on the worst people I have ever met.