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Let's take by-paper laws, and any American style law structure OUT of the question because those are destroyers of common sense, and creators of polarization. Seriously, it's just a system put in place to deal with the large population, not reality. If somebody isn't intoxicated, they can consent, however, it's not consent if the other party involved takes the sex a step further, for example, gets more "excited" or "aggressive". It's also not consent if the other party gives their victim drugs to intoxicate them, making it easier for the other party to diddle, or if somebody is doing drugs WHILE being intimate, and the other party sees this as a chance to go full-animal style on the victim. The only time it's consent is if somebody asks their partner to give them drugs and do anything they want with them when they're intoxicated, even if they say no. If you consent to being intimate, and the other party takes the intimacy a step further, does more than what you expected and it makes you uncomfortable, whether you're intoxicated or not, that's considered rape, but it doesn't mean that you're in the right. If you consented to sex, and being drugged and sodomized by 2 FRAT BOYS, expect them to take it many steps further. It's your fault for consenting, and their fault for taking things many steps further.